Sometimes in this life we tend to ask repetative questions or "stupid like questions" so that we can starts or just to break a silent in an occasion or when meet people we know or you were being there with them for couple of minutes without any conversation with them.
You feel like you want to start the conversation and yet you really don't have any idea what to say or because someone already asked the question just before you. It is not the actual answer you are really looking for but it is just something that will led you to talk or hear something from the person.
You don't really pay attention what is the content of the answer saying back to you while you are asking yourself why you asked that question when you know or feel weird with the question you just asked...
Is this a normal phenomena or it only happened to some of us? or only me?
Sometimes it is funny but it happens many times in this life... like it is acceptable for us to do that. But you know you have to change this...to be a better person in this life.
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And even sometimes we want to say something to a person or to be specific to inform them about a situation which you know it will hurt the person feeling. You know it is not your fault but you still have a feeling like you are the one who turned the person to be unhappy or sad. You feel like you are the one to be blame for what had happened.
Or do you need to hide the real situation and just let them know themselves?
Maybe you feel better at first but your brain keep on thinking what might happen to the person if the person don't know this forever or the person only know this when it is too late to take an action.
Then once again you are in dilemma either to tell or not to tell... Finally you asked for help or guidance from friends what you should do but at the end you noticed without taking any action is already an action from you....
At the end, you hate yourself to be in that position and hoping it will not happen again in the future :)
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